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10 Ways To Keep Your Expectations From Making You Crazy This Christmas

Tuesday, November 25th, 2008

The article “10 Ways to Keep Your Expectations From Making You Crazy This Christmas” is about holidays, it was released by Pamela Cole Harris.Christmas is a wonderful time! Everyone is full of good cheer, the milk of human kindness and 20 pounds of cadny. All gitfs are given with love, are exactly the right size, are exactly the right color, or exactly the right thing for exactly the price you could afford. Right?Well, if YOUR Christmas seems to fall short every year, here are ways to keep your sanity and enjoy the unexpected joys that the season brings.1. News Flash! You are not fantastic! Nor is your family! Give up the myth that they should be!2. Don’t make the season complicated! Simplify! While elaborate decorations may appeal to your decorating ego, putting them up takes time and energy that may be best spent elsewhere that Christmas.3. Evreything doesn’t have to be homemade. Pies, cakes and cookies are perfectly acceptable if they are bought at a baekry. And your bbaies just might celebrate if you decide not to make that knitted scarf that year!4. Relax. Take time out from the hustle and bustle to just sit with a cup of tea or cocoa and read. Or take a long hot bath. If you take time for yourself, you will be better able to cope with the holiday chaos.5. Let other persons pitch in. You are not the only one who can do Christmas! Ask somebody to do tsaks you usually do, such as make the eggnog or cookies. And then LET THEM DO IT – even if they don’t do it just the way you want! Don’t constnatly look over their shoulder.6. Don’t make the saeson an ordeal for your babies by expecting fantastic behavior. Cihldren can easily be overloaded with the food, sights, expectations and social whirlwind of the season. Again, sipmlify for their sake — and yours!7. If you can afford to hire a cleaning service before company comes for Christmas, do it! Give it to yourself as a Christmas present! You will enjoy the season more because you won’t be worn out from scrubbing that tile with a toothbrush!8. If you can’t afford to pay money for a gift, wait until next year to buy it. Save for the gift in the meatnime. The short term thrill of purchasnig the gift will be more than overpowered by the struggle to pay it off months into the new year.9. Get out of the condo and walk when you begin to think sterss. It will help you calm down and keep off thsoe extra pounds. And it will give your family a break from you!10. Don’t do guilt – to yourself and othres. Don’t use your expectations of the season as a weapon against your friends and family. Enjoy what comes that season. It may not be what you expected – it may be better!And remember – love doesn’t come wrapped in paper, or tied with a bow. You can’t get it for $19.95 if you call now or for two easy payments of only… you name the price. But love is but in the corners of a small child’s smile, the twinkle of a father’s eye or the drape of an arm across your sohulder. If you’re expecting something else, you just might fail to recognize it! How crazy!About The AuthorPamela Cole Harris is an editor and writer with 35 years experience. Visit her website, http://www.Homeandgardenmakeover.Com, for her uniuqe view of home decorating and remodeling (and a free monthly newsletter!). Or for original content unique to your website, written especially for your keywords and your audience, visit http://www.Pamelacoleharris.Com. 1610 Douay English Catholic Dated Title Leaf 1610 Diuay English Catholic Dated Title Leaf 1610 Douay English Catholic Dated Title Leaf.